Siblings

I have two half sisters, and one identical brother. My brother has refused to talk to me or even be in the same room with me for years. Well, I am trying to plan a anniversary party for our parents and I called to let him know that. He did not answer his phone, so I left a message. Two hours later I get a call from my brothers wife. She was very upset that someone called her husband and demanded to know who it was. I explained why I called and was cut off and cussed out because I had contacted them.
What causes some people to be so rude to other human beings? What could I have done to him (and her) to cause so much hatred towards me?
I had to call one of my sisters and explained what happened. I can't call my parents, because I would like to have this a surprise party.
There are two thoughts going through my head right now and I can not get to sleep because of this incident. Number 1 (this is what will happen), ignore the incident, go on with my life and act like this never happened. At least I tried!
Number 2 (I would never do this because it would upset my mother), Call my brother and his wife and tell them they are rude, insensitive, awful human beings. Then call DCFS have my nephew removed from their dirty, smoke filled home, and adopt him. Okay, so the DCFS thing would be a little much.
Anyway.....I am glad to have that out of my system, do I feel better...NO, will I get to sleep now...MAYBE.

It gets worse before it gets better?

I have been going to the chiropractor for three weeks now. My first visit the doctor told me that I may feel good for a while, but during the treatment, I would feel some pain due to the adjustment to my spine. I was fine with that, but I assumed it would be pain in the same area that I had pain before, my lower back. I am now having lots of pain in my neck. It has been a week now that pain started in my neck. I thought it was caused by a restless sleep or too many pillows, so I have only been using one pillow the last few nights. Now I believe it is the work from the chiropractor. My next appointment is Monday, so I have to deal with it through the weekend.
So does that saying work with other things in my life? How about my weight loss. I am the biggest I have ever been, so obviously I am going to start loosing soon.......right?

A Good Friday the 13th

Today is supposed to be a bad day, if you believe in all those superstitions. I had a very normal day. Went to work, the chiropractor, back to work, came home, and feel asleep on the couch. There was not even anything out of the ordinary today. I will watch a movie tonight since I do not have to get up early in the morning. The movie will either be "The Condemned" with wrestler Steve Austin or "Half Past Dead 2" with wrestler Bill Goldberg. I got both of these movies because these two wrestlers were in the movie "The Longest Yard" with Adam Sandler and they were both very good in that movie.
Hope everyone else had a very normal day on this superstitious day.

Doctor bills

I know the doctors are usually correct when it comes to the care we need, but do they realize that it is way too expensive to have the care we need?
I have a hip problem and I need to wear a lift inside my shoe to raise my right hip. I also have heat therapy and a adjustment from the doctor. I found out that the out of cost for me would be 109.00 per visit. That would be not bad, but since I have to go for 3 days a week for 6-8 weeks, this is going to be very expensive for me.
I will continue seeing the doctor this summer and hope my condition gets better. I am starting to feel better as far as being able to walk better without pain. I know it is good for me.
Why do I get stuck paying an arm and a leg for care, but some people get health care free or at an extreme discount. Here I have to work two jobs right now to make ends meet and then this happens, but some people at sitting at home with three kids, no job, sitting at home smoking away, buying their kids the most expensive clothes, but they get free health care. What am I doing wrong? Why are the educated and middle-class people being punished with full expenses?

Summer goals

Tomorrow will be my last day at my main job for a while. I will have the summer off until mid-August. I will only be working my second job. It will be much better and the best part is that I will still get paid by my first job. Two checks all summer and only one job. Could there be anything better? Well, yeah, but I am not getting into that on this blog. LOL
My goals this summer are:
1. EXERCISE: I have a gym membership, but do not use it to the extent that I should. I really need to start using it more often, but with gas prices like they are right now, I might try walking/jogging/biking around the neighborhood. I enjoy walking and biking in the early morning before it gets hot outside. Since I am used to getting up early for work, I hope to continue and just exercise. I need to loose 20-30 pounds before the summer is over.
2. PAY OFF BILLS: I have two credit cards that I would like to pay off this summer. That is the reason for the second job. I would also like to start a savings account and put money in there every month. I have lots of things I want to purchase, but they all take down payments. The biggest thing I want to save up for is a new car!
3. HOME REPAIRS: I will be painting one of the rooms in my house this summer. It is a very light yellow color, I haven't decided if I want to keep it yellow, just brighter; or change the color altogether. I will also be painting a wall border in my basement game room. The walls are a bright red right now, and I would like to do a stencil border of the spade, heart, diamond, and club around the room. I will paint the club and spade in, and just put a black line around a heart and diamond. I will probably alternate black and red.

I think three goals are plenty. If I set too many goals for myself, then they will not get done.

To a Lazy (NEEDED) Day!

My couch and I are starting to grow apart, so last night I went to the local video store and rented four movies. Today, it is all about me and my couch and our quality time together. When I make a promise to my couch, I keep it. Today, I watched "No Reservations", "How She Move", "Take the Lead", and "The Brave One." I enjoyed all of them in some sense. No Reservations was a good love story and of course I cried at the end. How She Move was an odd movie, but I did enjoy all of the dancing (step'n) in it. I enjoy dancing movies. Take the Lead was very cute and entertaining. A movie about teaching people in different ways always hits me in a special way....I wonder why? The Brave One was a good movie for Jodie Foster. A few parts of the movie were a little unbelievable, but I did enjoy the story.
I did go for a long bike ride. A friend called me today and asked if I wanted to get out for a while. We went for a very long ride and it was peaceful and I enjoyed his company; when we were able to ride next to each other. This city is improving the roads for bicyclists. I hope they continue doing that. I would like to see wider roads with bike lanes, or large sidewalks made for both walkers and bicycles.
I did also go to convenient care for a friend today. He has been very sore for a couple weeks, and I am surprised he lasted this long before going to get some meds. I sure hope he gets a chance to call a doctors office on Tuesday and make an appointment to get some tests done.
Okay, so I was not as lazy as I could have, but I did not have any stress today and that is a good thing. 8 more days to go....I can make it!

Shopping is an addiction

I needed something for the house on Sunday (nails to hang pictures) and I wanted to stop at Office Depot to look at printers for the house. I was just going to price them and see what options are new on them. Well, I looked at three printers and was going to head to another store and look at more. As I walked up front to the door, I looked at the Red Tag table and saw a box with a printer and digital camera together. Now, that was the end of it...next thing I know, I am at home, unpacking a new printer and playing with a digital camera.
This is why I got another job. I wanted to stay busy, and use the extra money to pay off bills. I should be outlawed in electronics stores, and game stores, and clothing stores, outlets malls, basically any store that takes plastic.